samedi 31 octobre 2009

Class of '69 - October 2009


The prospect of our 40th high school reunion – we were excited. We had decided, to hell with the busiest and most stressful part of our working year, just drop everything, get the airline ticket and just go.

Another old friend, the one without internet, the snail mail one, said, oh, you are so brave. I just don’t think I could face it. Where we felt anticipation, she felt mild curiosity. Our best friend here at home, eight years our junior, said, I can’t imagine wanting to see anyone I went to high school with. Maybe because I changed schools a lot. I don’t know…

We wondered, so why were we so game? To be honest, the excitement had first been worked up by that phenomenon known as Facebook. The faces had been coming up out of the mist, like the triangular pieces of wisdom offered by the Magic 8 ball – each one teasingly obscured by 40 years of life having been lived but left untold. We were starting to connect, remember – and even to repair.

With us, the desire had long been there, before Facebook. We had already been trawling the web in hopes of a reunion. We hadn’t really even twigged on the even forty-year date – we had just known it was time. And then nervously discovering that there had already been a ten years’ reunion, and then a twenty – and no one had dug us up to invite us, even though our mom still lived in the house we’d grown up in. But still we persisted, still we wanted, we had to be there.

On the very eve, there were some fleeting doubts. Our mom and sis helped fuss over what to wear – 87-year-old mom so effortlessly picking up the roles she’d played when we were 17 – (tuck in the blouse or wear it out?) all of us knowing that there wasn’t much to be done, things were as they were, and perhaps that game was even then starting to reveal its false machinations. The weekend was in fact, to put an end to all that - to show how none of that mattered anymore, and how none of it ever had.

The festive night, the inviting lights, The friend that approached, his characteristic laugh unmistakeable, simply extending his hands, looking at us, shaking his head, wordless: I’m here. So many people and places to visit in those rooms, and so many we did not even make it around to. A strange spell came over us making all the women beautiful and all the men deadly cute. We kid you not.

Later, in the car with our first love from junior high, and indeed our first date (he reminded us that his dad had driven), we heard him say he was so glad he came, he described it all as somewhat of a triumph, just that we’re still here, I mean, we obviously all knew enough to stop at red lights and such, but then, The twentieth would have been hard for me. I don’t think I could have done the twentieth. Why? There was just too much left to do. But now…

Is there now nothing left to do? Certainly not – we are not suggesting a slide towards death. We feel rather that we are just hitting some kind of stride. The night, the lights, the going out, all seemed a pocket of forever, as hopeful as any prom party or graduation dinner. Life goes on and life is, after all, so good. And that night, the best thing of all, was how a kind of peace had settled in. A feeling so unexpected, and overwhelming and strange – quite simply, we felt like we had made it home. We had made it home safe.

lundi 17 août 2009

A votre santé


We live in three countries, in a way. There’s the country in which we spent the first 40 years of life, then there’s the country we live in physically, and then there’s the country in which we listen to the radio. This radio station talks about politics a lot – the Prime Minister and some very colourful (sic) politics. (We’re not always attentive, having shook ourselves awake one day saying, it is no use being moved to vote for the leader of the Kingdom in Which One Listens to the Radio.)

Currently, the Kingdom in Which We Listen to the Radio is spending a lot of time tangled up with The Former Colonies right now, that country having cast aspersions on The National Health Service - and if we can believe the radio, the claims are not without merit.

Risking sounding like we are indulging in a kind of schadenfreude (a word that comes from neither of the languages we speak), we are comforted that we physically reside in another country altogether. Our health care est un miracle, carrement. But should it be such? It was not until we’d lived in L’hexagone for some time before we came to understand what it was to have problems, worries and challenges, yes, but that getting a doctor’s care or affording medicines or landing in the hospital is not one of them. What a massive relief.

And it set us to thinking about health care in the native land, and wondering who would not want this, who does not deserve this, remembering being a freelancer and being worried literally sick about this – and thinking but yes:. there are people in our country of birth who believe in their hearts that people who have not managed to snag a decent health plan from a decent job are losers. The American dream – the American responsibility – is to earn the daily bread and the hospital, too.

But now that we have lived in the country where – day by day - one does not live in fear of doctor’s bills - now that we have tasted this non-fear – and knowing that it is for everyone – and seeing just how it recedes into the landscape where it belongs – we feel ever so strongly that there are areas in which market must not rule. Yes, ok, it costs a bomb, and humans know how to abuse it – so we can’t continue like this forever, and it will be necessarily adjusted – but doucement, doucement. Our hearts are in the right place, and thank God we’ve got them covered.

mercredi 29 juillet 2009

Beverage Profiling


The President stumbled just a little. We meant notre Président du coeur, the American one, not the one who got all bent out of shape jogging and who has been prescribed a vacation. (Someone who has to have a heart attack scare to convince themselves to lighten up and go on vacation can’t really be all that French. Slow down, Mr. Sarkozy, you’re President of vacation paradise – the French concentrate on “discovering” their own Texas-sized country every year as much as foreigners do – and it’s the kind of place that inspired Disneyland – except being the real thing.)

When his friend Henry Louis Gates locked himself out of his own house, a mishap that lead to him being handcuffed for disturbing the peace, Obama was asked to comment. His first reaction was memorable – he said, “well, if I tried to break into my house…” then he realized where he was – and he let out a nutty little laugh and said, “well (if I tried to sneak in) here I’d be shot!” Whatever he does from now on in, whether anything he does goes right or wrong, we will always love him just for that moment.

Afterwards he said the police had been “stupid,” and went on about it – and later realized he’d started a media furor – (something that is as easy to do as starting a brush fire in August in the California hills) – and had to go calling up the people involved. It is all ending with “a beer at the White House” with Mr. Gates and the police sergeant. It’s said that Barack will serve Budweiser. Fine. It’s not our favorite, but it’s American (think of the furor that could start up over Heineken or Kirin), and yes, we accept that people submit to long train rides or even planes paid for by the taxpayer just to drink a beer at the White House.

But here are the real questions. Who is this neighbor that called the police, who doesn’t know that one of the most prestigious authors and scholars in the country lives a couple of doors down - and doesn’t believe the man on the porch lives on her street whoever he is? And why automatically choose beer when Obama doesn’t particularly like it? Did he ask the cop if he wanted wine or juice?

lundi 6 juillet 2009

Playing Out of Tune

It’s the kind of random serendipity reminiscent of the great composers. Two stories currently announce themselves side by side on the website of the New Times. (It is not for nothing that www.nytimes.com is our homepage, our touchstone, therefore consulted more times a day that we would like to admit).

Obama Arrives in Moscow to Seek Arms Control Deal sits next to (this just in) a lengthy obit of Robert McNamara, the former defense secretary that (quote) “helped lead the US into the maelestrom of Vietnam and spent the rest of his life wrestling during the war’s moral consequences.”

McNamara was a brilliant technocrat recruited from the Ford Motor Company by JFK during the final tremulous shivers of the cold war. Nuclear power on their minds, and the idea of the USA losing a conflict unthinkable. He was in the room during the Cuban Missile Crisis. He served through the assassination to the Johnson administration, during which the war became his personal nightmare. Vietnam was called “McNamara’s War.” He did not object. “I am pleased to be identified with it,” he said, “and do whatever I can to win it.”

Later he confessed in a memoir that he had been “terribly, terribly wrong.” And in Errol Morris’s brilliant 2003 documentary, The Fog of War: Eleven Lessons from the Life of Robert S. McNamara,” the former secretary talked about his experience doing statistical analysis during WWII:

“We burned to death 100,000 Japanese civilians in Tokyo — men, women and children,” Mr. McNamara recalled; some 900,000 Japanese civilians died in all. “LeMay said, ‘If we’d lost the war, we’d all have been prosecuted as war criminals.’ And I think he’s right. He — and I’d say I — were behaving as war criminals…What makes it immoral if you lose and not immoral if you win?”

And finally, “Nuclear weapons serve no military purposes whatsoever,” he wrote. “They are totally useless — except only to deter one’s opponent from using them.”

But by the end of his life, McNamara’s lament was considered “too late”, his tears for the dead “stale,” his confessions hollow, out of key.

Today, over in column one, Obama wants to disarm the major powers, and took a plane to Moscow to get started. There are some who find him wrong, wrong. He’ll never do it. What a risk to take! It might right alone in the rooms of state, in the silence of a man’s conscious, but in practice! How?

How does one know when one is singing in the wrong key? Can one hear when the most dissonant tone is in fact deep perfection?

Now, about hte photo. We conclude with this item posted on Facebook for American Independence Day (July 4th) by Sue Schardt, Executive Director of the Association of Independents in Radio. (Thanks, Sue) The photo is the composer Igor Stravinky, the composer of The Rite of Spring that caused a stir at its premiere. Yes, it's a mugshot:

Igor Stravinsky was reportedly arrested in Boston in 1940 for including a major 7th chord his arrangement of the Star Spangled Banner. Massachusetts law prohibited "tampering with national property," which apparently included the national anthem.


dimanche 28 juin 2009

and the beat goes on

It may be late Saturday afternoon at the Grande Ecole, but it’s a hive of activity, with the students busy serving snacks and being friendly. Two young guys in red student association tee shirts play a spirited game of ping pong with a pair of guys in snappy blazers, white shirts and ties. The hopeful applicants straight out of gruelling preparatory schools from around France dress to the nines for their interviews. Michael Jackson’s Billie Jean is blaring from the lounge.

The snacks, the funny graffiti and the ping pong suggest a devil-may-care situation, but in reality there is more to it. After all, we’ve taken part in the French entrance juries this year, conducting interviews, passing judgement as the French faculty representatives do, and we got a glimpse into the pressures on French prep school students. Quite frankly, they’re put through the wringer.

Another Jackson song, Beat It, comes to mind, along with a job we had in the 80’s helping to produce a daily children’s radio show. We had a top ten of songs that the children, aged 6 – 12, requested each week. For months they called in Beat It, Beat It, over and over, driven by the urgency of the beat, and the message in the words:

Beat It, Beat It, Beat It, Beat It
No One Wants To Be Defeated
Showin' How Funky Strong Is Your Fight
It Doesn't Matter Who's Wrong Or Right

Just beat it beat it beat it.

Over the last two days, millions of people worldwide have been focusing on the demise of the manchild. It was a man who broke the color barrier into the White House, but it was a strange enchanted boy who first broke the color barrier on MTV. The boy is dead. Long live the boy. And he sure could dance.

Back in our office, we hit the New York Times front page online, which zips us through to You Tube – the best of Michael dancing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKBLxh3u0tM

5.7 million views and counting

And the video of Beat It? 25 million and counting.

mardi 5 mai 2009

Technology and Desire


We finally spilled a glass of wine all over our computer keyboard. Ah!  time to buy a new one. Why did we wait so long? The new one has such springy keys, so responsive to our  touch, so smooth yet yielding like fine small squares of dense, toothsome chocolate.

We hover by the screen these days. Because our age old dream – that of a bus filled with all the people we’ve loved and lost throughout our long life heading straight for heaven – is back! Yes - 75 Friends and counting.

First - we stopped off at the technology store on our way home to join the friends. We became excited by the thousand flat screens, the sleaker computer speakers, the toys to flatter our own darling ipod, the little waffle iron that could. And – don’t tell now! - we sneaked so slyly into the Mac section, more than ready to cheat on our PC. And please tell us - how much will it really cost us to get an iphone, do you reckon? We’ll pay.

Technology will save us... technology will bury us...The medium is the…what? Never you  mind.

 

dimanche 26 avril 2009

Easy come, easy go


Just when we thought things were going OK, there were taxes to pay. The salary amount certainly has been adjusted for the cost of living, and then some, but we know we  enjoyed it more when we had to lay all our money out on the table, green, blue, pink and yellow.

 The time we were sent to prison did not help matters. Once would have been hard, but three times in a row made us really feel like everything in life was against us. We’re not even clear as to what it was for. We had duly paid the luxury tax, although we had no luxuries at the time. Once released (we had a card), we managed to acquire some property – but that got traded away very quickly to Clément, who had mercilessly built hotels before anyone else was even out of the starting gate.

To be honest, those new hotels are plastic, not as nice as those we remember in the days of the top hat and cigar. They fall over more easily than the small wooden ones. Plus, the bank itself is plastic, too. The money ebbs and flows through a plastic card shoved into a machine, singing its little electronic melody as the cash is siphoned away. Easy come, easy go, we said. We also said, we are sure that money should not be represented by plastic. This is one thing that we have learned.

In the end, we managed to own the Place de la Concorde and  the Eiffel Tower just for a turn or two. But then we landed on Clément’s hotel on Notre Dame. Hasn’t anyone explained to him that the Musée d’Orsay, the Louvre, and the Gare du Nord aren’t for sale? That you can’t build a hotel on Notre Dame? Paris will never be sold off piecemeal, like Boardwalk, Marvin Gardens or Park Place, right? Aren’t we right about that one thing?